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THE SWEET GIRLS GUIDE...To Getting Her ManWhat He Wants- How to Think like a Man
The first thing you must do is learn how to think like a man. Men and women want different things from a relationship. I am going to be brutally honest. Some of it may be hard to take. It may even sound backward, but remember, men are our opposite. Every man has something to prove. He wants to prove it to his parents. He wants to prove it to other males. He wants to prove it to himself. He wants to prove it to the world. Prove what? His masculinity. For so long as he shall live, everything he does and everything he says will be in the pursuit of proving his masculinity. Do not be deceived, for within every sweet, shy, geek beats the heart of an underdog who desperately wants to be the Alpha Male. [Alpha-Male: The individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to.] Watch the nature channel and you will see, without exception, male mammals are hard wired to compete for dominance. There are three ways a man might prove his dominance to society. 1) War *War can be any competition of physical skill such as sports or fighting. Lacking real physical skills he may play competitive video games depicting war, sports or fighting. * Watching any music video should convince you men like to have money and show it off. * Number three is where you come in. You may be his friend, his lover, his confidant, and his partner in crime, but before all of that you are his trophy. Often a girl of excellent inner qualities is passed over in favor of a flashier girl who looks good on his arm. You may be a very worthy girl, of many virtues. But this is not enough to make you sought after. First you must catch his attention with charms that are more clearly visible. Only then, after he is attracted, will he come to appreciate your inner qualities. Men date and marry women who they want to be "seen with." Even gay men like to surround themselves with beautiful glamorous women. Not for a sexual purpose, but for a social one.
You, are a possession which he displays to the world as a measure of his success. This key point explains many mysteries of male behavior. Ever notice how when a celebrity finally makes it big, he will dump the wife who stood by him when he was a no-name and marry a Hollywood starlet? Ever notice how a struggling businessman who's struck it rich will leave the wife who was faithful to him when he was a penniless bum and marry some bimbo? These stories happen every day. We stand looking at the tabloids in the check out line asking, "Is he stupid? Why would he dump the woman who was there for him through the hard times for someone who wouldn't give him the time of day if he wasn't a big shot?" You ask this question because you are a woman. Mans weakness lies in his pride and ego. The answer is in the question itself. He's not dumping her in spite of the fact she was with him through the hard times; he's dumping her because of it. "What???!!!" He doesn't want the woman he could get when he was a broke nobody. He wants the woman he could only get after he became a big important somebody. He's trading up his woman like he's trading up his car. Getting rid of the cheap-but-reliable one he had, in exchange for an expensive showpiece that displays his newfound status. When meeting an eligible man you must make yourself appear prestigious in the following ways: 1) Beauty In the midst of all this tragic reality, I tell you to take heart. It's a lot easier to be a trophy than you think. Why, it's mostly smoke and mirrors! I will show you what high-status behaviors to play up. For starters, make sure to casually flaunt anything that lends you prestige when meeting a eligible man. If you were ever a model, he needs to know about it. I don't care if you were only a hand or foot model. Just say "I did some modeling," and leave it at that. Ditto if you were ever in a beauty pagent of any kind. Even if you were only four years old. Even if you came in last place. He doesn't need to know the details. I also will show you how to avoid the pitfalls. For example, calling him, arranging your schedule around him, giving him cards or gifts, and other chasing behavior, is like saying to him "You are of higher prestige than me." This makes you drop (like a stone) to a lower social status in his eyes. A woman his equal is of no use to him either. He must think you are a bit superior. He wants to be seen with a woman of higher status than himself, so that he can recieve the admiring looks and envy of other men. Here, I will show you how to be the kind of woman that any man would be proud to stand next to. ~Best Regards, Berry |
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